If I asked you ‘what are the major biblical metaphors for church, I wonder what would spring to your mind first?
Would family be the first metaphor you think of? I hope so, because the Bible presents God as our Father, Christ as the bridegroom and the church as the bride. Those who make up the church are referred to as the household of God and are repeatedly called children of God and brothers and sisters.
Do you indeed affectionately treat other Christians as family members? Just as families come together regularly, is that where you’re at with regard to assembling with other believers?
Probably the second major metaphor for church is the body. Just as a human body has many specialised and interconnected parts supporting each other and causing the whole body to flourish, so too the church is made up of people with different roles and abilities.
In likening the church to a physical body, the apostle Paul said the hand can’t say to the eye I don’t need you and the head can’t say to the feet I don’t need you. No, much rather, those members of the body which seem to be weaker are necessary.
These metaphors speak volumes. Body parts need connection to flourish. Ideal families stick together and exhibit great loyalty.
You personally may have had some off-putting experiences, but why not pursue the ideal church experience Christ, the head of the body, meant for you. God knows the church needs you too!